Stuck on a Perfect Day: How to Get Unstuck and Create

03-20-2025 by The Dreamer for www.notyourdream.com

Beating the Creative Slump When Everything Feels Too Good

Hey everyone, how’s it going? I’m just sitting here, kinda stuck, and I figured I’d chat with you all about something I’m dealing with today. It’s one of those days where everything feels just perfect—the weather outside is gorgeous, sunny but not too hot, with this nice little breeze. I’ve got nothing big to worry about, which is awesome, but here’s the thing—I can’t get myself to be creative for even a second. I know I need to write a simple post for my Substack, but my brain’s just not moving in that direction. Anyone else ever feel like this? Let’s talk about how to beat these days when you’re stuck but wanna make the most of that perfect vibe.

So, I’m sitting here, staring at my laptop, knowing I’ve gotta write something. It’s not even a big post—just a quick one—but I can’t get the words to flow. Instead, I’m thinking, “Maybe I’ll play some video games.” I never play more than 5 minutes, I swear, but it’s like my brain’s looking for any excuse to not do the thing I know I should. Or I start thinking, “It’s such a nice day, I should do something fun to treat myself!” Like, I wanna go for a walk or grab an ice cream or something—anything but write. I’m starting to wonder if it’s commitment issues, haha. Is that a thing with creativity? I don’t know, but I do know I can’t let this perfect day slip away without getting something done. If you’re curious about why we procrastinate like this, this article from Psychology Today breaks it down really well.

Here’s what I’ve been trying to get myself unstuck—maybe it’ll help you too if you’re feeling the same. First, I step away for a bit. Like, I’ll go outside, feel the sun on my face, and just breathe for a few minutes. Sometimes that little break helps reset my brain. I’m not saying go play video games for hours, but a quick 5-minute distraction can actually help—maybe it’s a level on your phone or even scrolling through some funny videos. Just don’t let it turn into a whole day of procrastination, you know? I found this piece on Forbes that has some solid tips on avoiding that trap.

Another thing I do is grab a notebook and just scribble whatever’s in my head. Doesn’t have to be good—I’ll write stuff like, “Ugh, I can’t think, it’s too nice out,” and somehow that gets the ball rolling. It’s like my brain needs to dump the junk before it can get creative. If that’s too much, I’ll put on some music—something chill, like lo-fi beats—and just close my eyes for a bit. It’s not meditation, exactly, but it helps me feel less stuck. I’ve been loving this lo-fi playlist on Spotify for getting into that relaxed vibe.

I also remind myself why I love writing these posts in the first place. It’s not just about getting it done—it’s about connecting with you all, sharing what’s on my mind, and maybe helping someone out there feel less alone. That usually gives me a little push. And if I’m still struggling, I’ll set a tiny goal—like, “Just write one sentence.” Once I get that down, it’s easier to keep going. I read this article on Harvard Business Review about setting small goals, and it’s been a game-changer for me. Sometimes I even tell myself, “You can go do that fun thing after you write.” Like, I’ll treat myself to that ice cream once I’ve got a draft done. It’s not a commitment issue—it just needs a little nudge to get moving.

These perfect days are too good to waste, you know? I don’t wanna look back and think, “Man, I could’ve written something cool, but I just sat around.” So, I’m gonna try one of these tricks right after I hit send on this—probably the notebook scribble thing. What about you? How do you get yourself motivated when you’re feeling stuck but the day’s too nice to waste? Let me know—I’d love to hear what works for you!